Archive for May, 2006

Good Bye to Dubai

Saturday, May 20th, 2006

I’m back home again after a week of travel to the far off land of Dubai in the United Arab Emirates—yes, in the Middle East. And what a trip it was. Even the thirty hours in travel mode at both ends of the trip were an adventure, beings that I made the seventeen-hour flight each way in Business Class. What a treat! I didn’t even suffer a minute of jetlag and I’m sure that it was because I was able to get plenty of sleep in a plush seat that tipped back flat into a bed. What luxury. I don’t know what the difference is between First and Business Class. I can’t imagine First Class being any finer. You have all of the privacy you want in the First and Business Class sections on British Airways 747 planes. From my seat, I could not see the face of a single passenger. I had my own individual TV set with a nice selection of movies and programs. And I had more legroom than I needed.

I received a toiletries kit upon boarding that included slipper socks and a sleeping mask. Hot, moist clothes were distributed periodically for freshening up. Drinks and food were served FREE nonstop on the plane and in the First Class airport lounges. The food was served in courses on real dishes and we were given real silverware and cloth napkins. I particularly enjoyed the cream puff and shortbread cookie we got with our coffee just before landing for a stopover in London.

I had a four-day stay in a 5-star hotel in Dubai. Why was I there? I was invited to give the keynote address at a Toastmasters Conference for District 79. This included about 800 Toastmasters from the UAE as well as Kuwait, Behrain, Saudi Arabia, Jordan, Oman and Qatar. And I was invited because of my writing. The Toastmasters there had become accustomed to seeing my articles published in The Toastmaster Magazine. Freelance writers and authors, do not underestimate the power and the scope of your writing.

What an experience. I thoroughly enjoyed the people. They are warm and gracious. They treated me like a celebrity. I went there expecting to speak in front of strangers. By the time I spoke—on my third day there—I felt as though I was speaking to friends. My topic, How to Present a More Creative Speech.

This was my first trip to the Middle East. The most exotic place I’d ever been before this was the Caribbean. What struck me most about the people is the diversity and the acceptance. I saw people of all cultures interacting most warmly with one another. One of the most surprising things I witnessed was a young woman in a burqa (covered in black from head to toe with just her eyes visible between a full head covering and a heavy veil) participating in a humorous speech contest. Her subject was, Men are from Mars and Women are From Venus.

I had time for a little touring and I saw the famous 7-star hotel, the Burj al Arab. I saw the outline of the manmade Palm Island in progress and photographed the twenty-four 5-star hotels that are under construction there. I saw the site of the tallest hotel in the world and I shopped in the largest shopping mall in the world. I saw the outside and the inside of the amazing indoor ski slope. Much of the city is currently under construction on land and at sea. Yes, they have an underwater hotel in the works. I understand that one-third of the world’s cranes are in Dubai because they currently have the largest area of construction anywhere in the world. They are also building the world’s largest manmade harbor.

They certainly do things up bigger and better in Dubai. They even have what I would consider the largest creek in the world. They call it a creek, but it is so wide that they have a fleet of boats to get people from one side to the other. And crime is practically non-existent there, according to anyone you talk to. The people there don’t even know what graffiti is, for example.

What an experience! I got a henna tattoo—the women there like to elaborately decorate their hands and sometimes their feet with henna. The design lasts for about two weeks. I went on a desert safari. And I even danced a little with the people of the Middle East.

I met several authors in Dubai. I took copies of my book, The Right Way to Write, Publish and Sell Your Book and sold out within minutes of putting them on display. I gave away about 150 brochures. And I had the most interesting conversation with a librarian who approached me to say she was glad to finally meet me. She said that she has been checking my books into the local library for years. What? My books are in a library in a foreign country? Who knew? I can tell you that I will be reaching out to the foreign market from now on, especially to those areas that are predominantly English-speaking.

Well, I’m back home in California pursuing my life with fond memories of a travel adventure like no other. For more about my journey, read the June edition of SPAWNews at www.spawn.org. The June issue will be posted June 1.

In the meantime, if you are an author or you are thinking about writing a book, don’t forget to order your copy of The Right Way to Write, Publish and Sell Your Book. This book is for you no matter what stage of authorship you are currently in. It is for you whether you hope to land a traditional royalty publisher, are contemplating going with a fee-based publishing service or you want to self-publish (establish your own publishing company). http://www.matilijapress.com/rightway.html

And don’t forget to sign up for my Focus on the Masters Workshop in Ventura, CA. This is a series of 3 workshops on June 3, 10 and 17. http://www.focusonthemasters.com

A Writer’s Adventure

Monday, May 8th, 2006

Today seems surreal. I’ve been telling people for months that I’m going to Dubai. I’ve been preparing and planning for the trip. I’ve been excited about the adventure. Yet, it’s hard to believe that I actually fly out of LAX to London and then on to Dubai TODAY. You can probably tell that I’m not a world traveler. I’ve never been much of a traveler until the last few years, when I started giving writing/publishing workshops throughout the U.S.

A few days ago, a friend called to say that Dubai is featured in the June issue of Vanity Fair. I ran right out and bought it, and just in time. At that point, my excitement was starting to wane and I was becoming nervous—not about the speech, but about the trip. After all, Dubai is a far off, foreign land. But, after reading the article and marveling over the photos of this amazing city, my excitement was renewed, and I went out and bought extra batteries for my digital camera. These batteries are to back up the back-up batteries. I don’t want to miss a photo opportunity.

I have packed a journal so I don’t chance forgetting anything about this amazing adventure. And what will I do with my journal notes? I have many things in mind. I will, of course, write about the experience—maybe an article for The Toastmaster Magazine. It was because of my articles in this magazine that I received this invitation, after all. And this is a good lesson for all of us. You see, you just never know what rewards your writing efforts might bring and when. The Toastmaster Magazine might be interested in a piece featuring tips for speaking out of the country, for example.

I may contact local newspapers to see if they’d like a story about my trip. This would also provide an opportunity to remind locals about my books for sale and my editorial services. I might come up with some angles that would appeal to travel magazines. Since I am the first woman to ever deliver the keynote address at a Toastmasters’ conference in this district, a woman’s magazine might be interested in a story.

I might even come up with some book ideas based on my experiences in Dubai.

But for now, it is bon voyage or whatever you say when someone is flying thousands and thousands of miles toward a wonderful adventure.

Keep writing and keep seeking out the adventures in life.

Patricia Fry is the author of 24 books, including her latest, The Right Way to Write, Publish and Sell Your Book. Order it at http://matilijapress.com/rightway.html

Soliciting Feedback for Your Writing

Friday, May 5th, 2006

There’s nothing quite like positive feedback for your writing efforts. Whether it’s a complimentary letter-to-the-editor published in a magazine that ran your article, a supportive comment from a friend who read something you wrote or a good review of your book, praise is always welcome. Writers and authors thrive on accolades. Second to a desire to write, of course, is the need to be read. A close third is our longing to be understood and validated.

And it doesn’t take much to give us a thrill. Two SPAWN members who shared our SPAWN booth at the recent Los Angeles Festival of Books told me that they had followed some of my advice from one of my articles and it helped them to sell more books. I had mentioned the concept of giving something more than the consumer expects. One member brought his lovely books of poetry and small boxes of chocolates tied together with pretty pieces of pink ribbon. What lovely Mother’s Day gifts these will make. Another member used raffia to combine his book on grammar with a binder and a pencil. Both members thanked me for making this suggestion.

How refreshing it is to know that you are being read. And why should we doubt it? I have thousands of copies of my books circulating among the public. My articles have appeared in hundreds of magazines and newsletters. My work is posted all over the Internet. Why should I doubt that it is being read? Of course, it’s being read. But, hearing directly from someone who tells me how they are using my suggestions or how a certain passage, a certain article or one of my books helped them gives me a glorious boost in confidence and validates my intended purpose.

A good friend of mine told me just yesterday that she is having a very prolific period. She is just bursting with article ideas and she said, “Part of the credit goes to you.” She explained. “I read what you wrote about doing a different activity to stir up the creativity in your brain. So I’ve been working on my beaded earrings and that really got me out of a stagnant spot.”

It’s true, if you feel blocked—you can’t get an idea and when you do, you can’t drum up the enthusiasm to work on it, try doing something else for a while. I recommend pursuing a creative activity. For me, gardening works or working on a needlework project. Redecorating a room or just a portion of a room is the key for some people. There’s just something about shifting gears and actually experiencing success in another realm that helps to jumpstart the part of your brain that you need functioning in order to perform well when writing.

Of course, this is just one of thousands of useful tips I’ve offered through my articles and books. Read The Right Way to Write, Publish and Sell Your Book for many, many additional tips and techniques. If you want to write a book or if you have a manuscript in the works, I have just one piece of advice—educate yourself. Become informed about the publishing industry, your options and the possible consequences of your decisions. Ideally, you will spend several months studying the industry. Hopefully, you will read books and articles written by many experts in the field. In so doing, you will learn who to trust and who to believe. Among your reading materials, please read my book, The Right Way to Write, Publish and Sell Your Book. And if you want my list of recommended experts and professionals, please contact me through my Web site or through this blog.

Now, how can you get feedback for your writing? Here are a few ideas:

• Build a Web site related to your book or your writing.
• Run a survey among your readers.
• Circulate your own newsletter, you’ll receive feedback from subscribers.
• Send emails to customers who have bought your book and ask for comments.
• Start a blog.
• Ask friends and random readers to add reviews to your Amazon page.
• Teach a course related to your book topic.
• Send copies of your latest article to your email list and ask for comments.
• Send your almost finished manuscript to experts for back of book testimonials.
• Get your book reviewed many times over.

I’m heading off to Dubai next week to speak before a group of Toastmasters. I’m packing my camera, of course, and a journal. I’ll also have my laptop in case anyone would like to communicate with me while I’m there. Just comment to this blog or contact me through my Web site.

In the meantime, if you haven’t purchased The Right Way to Write, Publish and Sell Your Book, this would be a good time. It really is important that you understand the publishing industry, your choices and the ramification of your decisions BEFORE you even start writing that book. If the manuscript is completed, then you still have time to do the right thing—to make the right decisions—if you read this book BEFORE you start scurrying around trying to find someone to publish your book. You do NOT have to pay someone to publish your book. There are thousands of publishers out there looking for a good book. If this is news to you, you MUST read my book.
http://www.matilijapress.com/rightway.html