I think I mentioned that I attended a blogging workshop while at the Maryland Writers’ Conference a few weeks ago. One thing I learned was never, never apologize for not blogging as often as you’d like. So I won’t. Hopefully, though, you’ve noticed my absence and have been eagerly awaiting my return.
Where have I been? I took a road trip to Las Vegas to watch my granddaughter compete in the Regional College Rodeo Finals. She did extremely well, but still placed out of the money. It seems that authors and freelance writers aren’t the only ones experiencing rejection and losses.
How often have you had your book or article queries, proposals or manuscripts rejected? Have you lost out to others when entering your work in contests? How does it make you feel when this happens? The way I see it, there are two typical reactions to rejection. You can either give up, call it quits, vow to never write again or you can recover, regroup and try again.
Quitting is not an option for those of you who want to establish a writing career or produce the book of your dreams. But what if you keep getting rejected time and time again?
If you constantly and consistently receive rejection letters instead of contracts, maybe something needs to change—and I don’t necessarily mean your publishing dreams or career choice. Here’s a list of considerations for those of you with more rejection in your lives than acceptances. Before calling it quits, try this:
• Scrutinize your idea. Is it truly a good one? Are you targeting the right audience? How large is your audience? Maybe this is not a viable idea.
• Consider the scope of your book or article. Perhaps you need to pare it down or bulk it up. Maybe your focus is too broad or too narrow.
• Evaluate the quality of your writing. Study other books like yours and/or other articles on this topic and in this style. Does your writing ability match up or do you need help in getting your point across? If you aren’t sure if your writing is good or you decide it doesn’t measure up, hire an editor to help you more effectively convey your message. Take writing courses.
• Reconsider your target publisher or magazine editor. Maybe you are aiming too high or you’ve contacted the wrong publisher/editor.
• Reassess your message. Is it old news, a passé subject or something that has been overdone over the years?
• Solicit the assistance of a good writing/publishing consultant or editor to determine if you’ve made any of the mistakes above and for help in rectifying them.
If you want to know more about handling rejection as well as any and all facets of writing, publishing and marketing a book (no matter your publishing choices), read my book, The Right Way to Write, Publish and Sell Your Book. This is a must-read and a definite elbow book for anyone who wants to enter into the world of publishing. What is an “elbow” book? One that you keep near you at all times to be used as a reference tool. http://www.matilijapress.com/rightway.html
Rejection is a fact of life for writers and authors. It’s a wise one who can put rejection in perspective and move on in a better direction. Learn to accept rejection. Discover how to use it to your advantage—to improve as a writer and to make better decisions. Pay attention to this message and you will experience the success that you desire.